Sunday, September 13, 2009

Well, so much for that positive outlook. That lasted a whole day and a half. I had a nice discussion with my hubby today about my disappointment in not having a job and how I feel like I'm not doing a good job pulling my weight in the money department--especially since I do my part in the spending area! But we looked at our budget and decided that once I finally get my sub paychecks we'll be doing fine. It's just hard because I stopped my summer job at the end of July, meaning I haven't been paid in 2 1/2 months! After buying a house and living off 1 income, my meager paychecks will be nice!

At least I actually worked last week. Tuesday was the only day I didn't have a job, and although Wednesday was only in the afternoon, it kept me busy! I have 1 full day and 1 1/2 day lined up for this week for far, and with the possibility of going to St. Louis this weekend, the hubby and I might not work Friday, so it's looking pretty good!

Since I worked all week (mostly) I spent the entire day yesterday cleaning the house while my hubby and FIL worked in the yard. It was nice to have such a clean house last night and this morning! I need to start being a little more consistent with my cleaning...oops!

I had an interview for a long term sub job this week, but it looks like I'll be getting one at hubby's school for 2nd grade! It would be from the beginning of next semester tell Spring Break. It would be so nice to have a consistent job where I can get to know the kids, team, and school. Plus it would be fun to get to know the 2nd grade curriculum a little better--might make me more marketable come interview time next year!

Oh gosh, just realized it's 6:00--got to go start my potatoes for Twice Baked Potatoes tonight! That and steak...it's going to be delicious!!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Bree

I've decided to do my best at channeling my inner housewife who I believe best resembles Bree Vanderkamp from Desperate Housewives (like my favorite show which happens to be on Lifetime at 1:00 & 2:00 daily). So this morning I actually took a shower, did my hair, and put make-up on--HUGE steps for me!--then donned my favorite cardigan and jeans. I am saving my khaki skirt, heels and pearls for later. Ü

Unfortunately, it has not helped me be very productive today, as I've spent the day making the bed, cleaning the kitchen, and making a quick trip to the local Dollar General for a new fall candle. None of which are on my list of things to do today! I'm just not feeling cleaning the bathrooms, which is actually on the list, in my housewife clothes. They may have to wait tell tomorrow and be done pre-shower.

I do get to be social tomorrow which is exciting. I'm having lunch with a sorority sister who is currently also a housewife. Luckily for her though she has a job lined up that she'll start in the next month or so. We're also going to the lake for the weekend with the in-law family. I'm pretty sure it is the first time the 6 of us have been done in about 3 years! I think it is going to be a cold one, but with the 6 1/2 of us, including baby (plus 2 dogs), it should be a good time.

I have decided that my glass for jobs is half full. It took my wedding photographer to put it into perspective for me. When my FIL told her that I was still jobless, she replied with "that's great! You have your whole life to work! Now she can use this time to hang out with her hubby and have fun!" What great advice! So, I've decided that so what I don't have a job! I get to sleep in, watch GMA and Rachel Ray, and occasionally, Wife Swap and Desperate Housewives! I can get the household chores done at a leisurely rate (I'm real good at that) and have the whole weekend to spend with my hubby NOT cleaning, grocery shopping, and laundry. We can go to the WWI museum that as a KC native I've never seen, go to the Nelson, take the dog to the park, basically whatever we want! It's been nice to be able to move past the frustration at not having a job and look at the bright side.

Speaking of taking the dog for a walk, I promised her we'd go somewhere fun today. So even though I have not cleaned the bathroom, picked up the office, or organized my craft room, I think I'm going to take the camera and the dog and go exploring!